My son died in an accident why God is so cruel?

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My son died in an accident why God is so cruel?

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My son died in an accident why God is so cruel?

Your question shows that you are not the real devotee of the Lord. Your son must have been a real devotee as expressed by your own words. He was born to you by his previous action (Prarabdha). In your association he will be certainly spoiled. Therefore the Lord wanted to change him as a son of another real devotee. He allowed some time to see whether you will change as a real devotee so that your son may continue with you. But you have not changed because you are scolding the Lord for cutting your bond with your son. Actually all the family bonds should be cut for the sake of the bond with the Lord. Just like you change your son from a school containing bad students to a school with good students, the Lord changed your son to the atmosphere of a real devotee. Thus the Lord protected your son. In His view, removing this external body is just like removing the shirt. In your view, such removal of shirt is cruelty. Therefore always be firm that the Lord is always the protector and He is kindest towards all His real devotees.
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My son died in an accident why God is so cruel?
you need to contemplate
1- you are not the owner of you son but you are only means that canalise the " existance" of the son who emanated from the Source.
2- the spermatozide and the ovins are only " activers" of the son energy that exist before your existance.
3- your son returned to the Source, from where he had his life and existance.
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Hello  :)
I have to full agree with you gaid39 all you are right....
but the pain of a parent who losses a child is something that neither me or anyone who havent experienced something similar can understand!
The only we can do about this in my opinion and (please forgive me if my reply seems too agressive) is to send Reiki and prayers to soften the heart/soul pain of this person!
with respect Black_ki

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Black_ki wrote: Hello  :)
I have to full agree with you gaid39 all you are right....
but the pain of a parent who losses a child is something that neither me or anyone who havent experienced something similar can understand!
The only we can do about this in my opinion and (please forgive me if my reply seems too agressive) is to send Reiki and prayers to soften the heart/soul pain of this person!
with respect Black_ki

Light and Joy!

Have a good night!
Even the bond with your child is unreal because the blood from your body entered into the body of other soul. This external gross body is destroyed here and the bond is destroyed with that gross body. The soul of Abhimanyu in heaven did not recognise his father, Arjuna, for the same reason. The bond with wife is more unreal which is formed due to touch between the two gross bodies, which are like the external clothes. The bond of the child perishes with the death. The bond with wife may die at any moment with divorce even with in the span of this life time, having a greater probability to give misery. The Gita says the same (Ye hi samsparsajaa bhogah …). A realised soul will not entertain himself in such unreal bonds (Na teshu ramate budhah – the Gita).
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Dear Friends,
Many parents loose their Child in an accident everyday. Each & everyone of the parent thinks that God is cruel. This is but natural however enligtened & philosophical one can be. You cant lie to your ownself.
But such feelings slowly subside with time. each one finds a source that explains the realities of life.
Reiki helps us to heal our relationship with others & God too. God is all forgiving & same to all.
In Reiki 2  we can heal such relationships using the symbols & exchanging love & reiki at the Heart Chakra.
Kundalini Reiki & other Reiki forms heal such Issues too.
If I was not able to understand the aim of the posted question, please explain to me.
Thank You.
Reiki Love & Light
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