A guest essay by Sharad Patil on how rituals manufacture identity, how belief systems reinforce them, and why unverified belief is dangerous.
There are no rituals here. Rituals are the physical or mental actions constructed by the apparently separate self to congeal its imaginary identity. They are a ploy, a way for the mind to create a pattern, a habit, or a system which will 'show' the body-mind that it is different from 'others'. This could be wearing a certain type of robe or symbol, following a fixed sequence of movements or words, or simply doing ordinary things in a particular, prescribed way. Whatever form it takes, the function is the same: it marks out the person as belonging to a certain religion, sect, caste, creed, or nation. The moment a person follows these patterns, he or she is declaring, silently or otherwise, "I belong to this group and not to that one."
Key Takeaways
- Rituals, in Sharad Patil's view, are patterns the mind builds to mark out an identity, a way of showing that one belongs to a particular group and not another.
- Belonging to a ritual-bound group offers a false sense of security, because the same act that creates "us" also creates the "other", and competition follows.
- Rituals and belief systems reinforce each other in a closed loop, each generating and protecting the other.
- A belief, unlike direct experience, is always someone else's report, handed down. The author argues it should never be accepted as true until verified for oneself, the way a scientist tests a hypothesis.
What Rituals Really Do
This sense of belonging offers a false sense of security. One feels safe inside a group that shares the same rituals, the same markers, the same reassurances. But the very same act that creates 'us' also creates the 'other', the one who does not follow these rituals, or who follows a different set altogether. And the instant there is more than one group, competition and jealousy follow as a matter of course. This is not incidental; it arises directly from the insecurity of the group's members, who feel threatened simply because the 'other' exists, because the other's existence quietly calls the group's own certainties into question. From there begins the effort either to convert the 'other' into 'mine' or 'ours', or to undermine and, if necessary, destroy them.
Why Every Group Guards Its Rituals
Therefore rituals, however innocent or beautiful they may appear, are dangerous. And yet every group creates them, encouraging members to follow them faithfully, and reinforcing that following by instilling fear of an authority, real or imagined, who will punish any departure from the prescribed form. This authority may be a god or deity, the head or chief of the group represented by a person or council, or it may be a law or act backed by the machinery of the State. Whatever its face, a so-called violation can provoke a violent response from that authority, proof of how seriously the pattern is guarded.
How Rituals and Beliefs Reinforce Each Other
Rituals inevitably give rise to a belief system, and belief systems inevitably generate their own rituals; the two feed each other in a closed loop. Beliefs are very powerful, but they can be extremely dangerous. A belief is never the product of one's own direct experience; at best, it is someone else's experience, handed down. It may happen to be true, but one must not accept it as true merely on that account, not until one has verified it for oneself, through one's own direct seeing. This is precisely the approach any genuine scientist takes in research: nothing is taken on faith, everything is tested.
Why Unverified Belief Is Dangerous
The same rigor should apply in the spiritual field, perhaps even more so, since what is at stake there is one's whole relationship to reality. And yet most of what passes for spirituality today rests on belief alone: belief in a God, in a messenger, in a holy book, in a guru, in a lineage. Any belief, by its nature, makes one blind, because it forecloses independent inquiry. One accepts what is written or what is said to have been revealed, without ever questioning it, and, remarkably, without ever having investigated whether it is true, one is nonetheless prepared to fight, and even to kill, in its defense. History bears grim witness to this: millions have died simply because their beliefs conflicted with someone else's. For this reason, we must shun every belief we currently hold, and remain relentlessly vigilant against forming new ones.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the author against all religious or cultural practice?
The essay is not an argument against culture or community as such. It is a caution about the specific function rituals often serve: marking out an identity that separates one group from another, and about accepting beliefs without ever testing them against one's own direct experience.
What is the difference between a ritual and a genuine spiritual practice?
In this view, the difference lies in the purpose. A ritual that exists mainly to declare group identity, "I belong to this and not that", is treated as a source of division. A practice aimed at direct inquiry into one's own experience, without needing a fixed belief to defend, is a different matter entirely.
Why does the essay compare spirituality to scientific method?
Because science, at its best, refuses to accept any claim as true until it has been tested and verified. The author argues that spiritual claims deserve at least the same rigor, since unverified belief, applied to something as fundamental as one's relationship to reality, carries far greater consequences than an untested scientific hypothesis.
Does rejecting rituals mean rejecting community or belonging?
Not necessarily. The essay questions belonging that depends on shared rituals and markers used to separate "us" from "them". It does not argue against connection with others, only against connection built on manufactured identity and unquestioned belief.
What does it mean to "shun every belief" in practice?
It means holding every inherited idea, however comforting or authoritative it appears, as something to be examined rather than defended. It does not mean living without any working assumptions, but remaining willing to test them against direct experience rather than accepting them purely on faith.
About the Author
Sharad Patil (Reshamey) served for many years in the Maharashtra state administration, including as an Additional Collector, before leading Sahyadri School, a Krishnamurti Foundation of India residential school. He is the author of The Unveiling of Tao and coined the term Apanth, the Pathless.
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Written by
Sharad Patil (Reshamey)Former Additional Collector, Maharashtra State Administration | Administrative Head, Sahyadri School | Author of The Unveiling of Tao
Sharad Patil served for many years in the Maharashtra state administration, including as an Additional Collector, before taking an extended sabbatical to work as the Administrative Head of Sahyadri School, a residential school in Pune district run by the Krishnamurti Foundation of India on the educational philosophy of J. Krishnamurti. He later returned to government service as Assistant Professor at YASHADA, Pune, the state's apex administrative training institute.
A lifelong seeker and writer of poetry, Sharad's inward inquiry deepened over years of direct contemplation rather than reliance on any prescribed spiritual path. His study of the Tao Te Ching led him to write his own interpretation of Lao Tzu's teaching in the Abhang verse form used by Marathi saint-poets such as Sant Dnyaneshwar and Tukaram, published as The Unveiling of Tao by Padmagandha Prakashan, Pune.
Deeply drawn to the teachings of J. Krishnamurti and Ramana Maharshi, and grounded entirely in his own direct experience rather than belief, Sharad coined the term APANTH, the Pathless, to describe the simple truth that the Self needs no path to be known, because it is already here and now.



